House Guidelines for Residents

House Rules

1. NO use of alcohol or any mind-altering and/or mood-changing drugs.
   • If you assist or allow another participant to use — this includes NOT informing CRF that you are aware of another participant in violation — you will be immediately discharged from Cornerstone Recovery.
2. All doctor-prescribed medication and all over-the-counter drugs must be approved.
   • Applications must clearly state any and all medication a person is taking and for what condition, in order to determine whether that person is eligible to be a participant at CRF.
   • CRF reserves the right to attend doctor appointments with participants and confirm ALL medical information with doctors, dentists, hospitals, etc., before and during residency at CRF.
   • Any regular medications that are discontinued need to be done under a doctor's supervision. A letter from your healthcare provider is needed prior to stopping medication.
   • All participants must check with CRF before taking any medication, including over the counter and supplements. No diet pills, steroids, appetite suppressants, or peptides are allowed.
3. Participants must submit to urine drug screens and/or breath tests upon request.
   • Refusal to submit to a drug screen and/or breath test will be considered an admission of using.
   • Once asked for a urine sample, you MUST produce it within 1 hour, and you may not leave the eyesight of CRF until results are finished.
   • The results of the drug test will be considered final. If a participant insists the test is incorrect, then the participant will be responsible for immediate testing from an outside agency. The test will be at the expense of the participant, and if positive, the participant will not be allowed to ever re-enter CRF.
   • If CRF suspects you are using or drinking, a positive test result is not required for discharge.
4. Participants must have NO PENDING COURT CASES.
   • All cases MUST BE CLOSED.
   • All fines MUST BE CURRENT.
   • Any new cases or charges while at CRF may result in removal.
5. Each participant is expected to be self-supported and must contribute financially to the running of the CRF home. A one-time, non-refundable intake fee of $300 is to be paid if accepted as a resident. A payment of $375 is due on the 1st and the 15th of each month ($750 per month). If the amount is not paid, is late, or if you have a balance owing to Cornerstone Recovery Foundation, participants may be placed on Financial Probation, which includes:
   • A modified Phase I.
   • Providing the House Leader with a pay stub and a written budget/financial plan.
   • If a participant is unable to pay, depending upon the individual situation and circumstances, you may be asked to leave CRF.
   • We do not give refunds.
6. Participants are not allowed to work in or go into any alcohol-serving or adult entertainment establishments while at CRF, including but not limited to bars, nightclubs, or casinos. Any questionable establishment should be cleared with the House Leader.
7. If a participant relapses, she/he may be allowed back to CRF after an approved drug/alcohol evaluation has been completed and all recommendations have been followed, with careful consideration by administration.
   • A minimum of 2 weeks before re-entry will be considered.
8. Participants will attend meetings. If a participant is employed (40 hours or more) they will attend a minimum of 5 meetings per week. If unemployed (or working less than 40 hours), participants will attend a minimum of 10 meetings per week.
   • The number of meetings is not negotiable. Treatment/outpatient does not count as a meeting.
   • Qualifying meetings include: Celebrate Recovery, church, sponsor meetings, counseling, AA/NA, men's prayer group, and peer support groups.
   • If a participant chooses to change sponsors, they need to have a new sponsor lined up before parting ways with their old sponsor, AND they must notify their House Leader.
   • Proper meeting etiquette is required at all meetings.
9. Each participant is allowed to bring the equivalent of 2 large suitcases.
   • Participants are responsible for keeping their personal areas neat and clean, including nightstands, dressers, closets, under their bed, etc.
   • A participant's clothing and personal belongings must always be stored neatly. All rooms are subject to random inspection for cleanliness and contraband. This includes drawers, closets, etc. Please be mindful that limited space means limited belongings.
   • Photos, posters, etc. must be placed on each person's billboard and are not allowed on walls.
   • All items left at CRF 30 days after a participant leaves CRF will be considered a donation. At no time is CRF responsible for a participant's belongings.
10. No participant may date or have romantic relations with any other CRF participant who lives in the same house.
    • If a participant is on probation or parole, she/he must get written permission to spend one-on-one time with any individual outside of CRF who is also on probation/parole.
    • Participants cannot spend time with anyone who is in active addiction/alcoholism.
11. Guests and visitors:
    • No visitors of the opposite sex are allowed in the CRF houses.
    • Adult visitors are only allowed at the invitation of a participant, must be approved by the House Leader, and can only be in the common areas of the house.
    • No overnight guests are permitted in CRF houses.
    • Sponsors may meet with participants in approved areas.
    • Peer support, Care Coordinators, Probation & Parole, and LACs are allowed at all times.
    • No participant or guest is ever permitted in another person's bedroom.
    • If a participant has children, ongoing visitation guidelines will be determined by administration. All visits must be approved by the House Leader and must take place in the common area of CRF or in the backyard.
12. No stealing, fighting, or threats of physical violence.
    • Derogatory slurs of any kind will not be tolerated.
    • Absolutely no pornographic or racial hate materials are allowed in CRF.
    • No paraphernalia or weapons are allowed on CRF property at any time.
    • There is ZERO tolerance of a participant taking another participant's food, and a $50 fine will be charged for all violations.
13. No participation or involvement in any illegal activities.
    • This includes being in the presence of illegal activities.
    • All incidents must be brought to the attention of management immediately.
    • All interaction with law enforcement must be brought to the attention of management immediately.
14. At CRF we believe in a lifestyle of service and "giving back." As such, we have occasional mandatory volunteer opportunities in the community. You will be given plenty of notice to request the time off work.
    • At events you represent CRF. Any breach of respectful conduct will result in consequences.
15. At CRF we believe in participating in recovery events. CRF may require additional recovery events, workshops, or activities during the year.
    • Registration fees, lodging, and travel for these conferences are paid for by CRF.
    • CRF will provide letters to participants for probation officers and employers if needed; however, it is the participant's responsibility to get any necessary paperwork completed for trips.
16. At CRF we practice the principle of being self-supporting. As such, all participants are required to have employment.
    • Residents are required to work at least 40 hours per week.
    • Participants must supply CRF with their work schedule as well as the name of their immediate supervisor, work phone number, and address. Work/school schedules must be turned in by 10:00 pm on Sundays.
    • Curfews may be adjusted for work with approval from CRF.
    • Unemployed participants must submit at least, but not limited to, 2 applications per day.
17. Participants are required to adhere to curfew.

    Sunday – Thursday	11:00 pm
    Friday & Saturday	12:00 am (midnight)

    • Adherence to curfew means signing in by the times listed and remaining in the house.
    • Participants must call the House Leader if an emergency arises and they are going to be late.
    • If a participant is late, a U/A and breathalyzer will be given, the cost of tests will be charged to the participant, and additional consequences may result depending upon the circumstances.
18. Quiet time is at 10:00 pm.
    • Quiet time is defined as respect of others while sleeping. Participants may read or watch television after quiet time, provided that other participants are not disturbed.
    • No use of the washer and/or dryer after quiet time.
    • No cooking after 10:00 pm; however, the microwave may be used.
19. Participants are required to sign out when they leave the house and sign in immediately upon returning.
    • Participants must list where they are going, who they are with, and how they are getting to their destinations.
    • When spending time with non-participants, the full name of each individual and their phone number must be listed on the board.
    • We have the right to verify information listed on the board at any time.
20. Mandatory chores and hygiene. Chores promote personal responsibility, so paying or asking someone else to do your chores is NOT permitted. Failure to have chores completed will result in possible reduction of phases and/or various other consequences.
    • Participants are required to have their bed made, bedroom tidy, and assigned chores completed and signed off on before leaving the premises for the day, or by 9:30 am at the latest.
    • If a participant is scheduled to work at or before 7:00 am, arrangements can be made to do your chores after work — however, this must be approved by a House Leader the night before by 10:00 pm.
    • No one is to be in bed during chore check.
    • Participants are required to tend to personal hygiene daily; this includes a daily bath or shower. If someone is in need of hygiene products, please inform the House Leader.
    • Bedding is to be washed every week and signed off on the chore sheet by 10:00 pm on Sundays.
    • Participants may not sleep on top of the comforter, on the couch, or on the floor.
    • Deep cleaning will be done monthly and checked on the 1st Sunday of each month. This includes a thorough cleaning of the entire house. Couches, chairs, etc. must be pulled out and cleaned behind. Ceiling fans, shelves, trim, appliances, etc. must be cleaned appropriately.
    • No eating or drinking (other than water) is permitted in any area other than the kitchen and dining room. Food is not to be left on the counter. All food must be stored in the refrigerator or cupboard.
    • The washer and dryer may only be run from 8:00 am to 10:00 pm. Loads must be medium to full loads, but DO NOT OVERFILL. Do not leave the house while laundry is in use.
21. No participant may borrow money from another participant.
22. No participant should disclose any information about another participant or former participant to anyone (except parole, probation, or law enforcement). Concerns about a CRF participant or alumni need to be brought immediately to the Director.
23. All participants are responsible for their own medical condition.
    • CRF is not liable for any participant at any time.
    • In case of emergency, House Leaders will notify the authorities and be as helpful as possible, but will not be responsible for a participant's condition or emergency/medical treatment.
    • Participants must inform management of all medical appointments and illness in advance.
    • All prescriptions, over-the-counter medications, and all supplements must be approved by the House Leader and inspected before bringing them into the house.
    • All prescriptions (including refills) must be brought home in a stapled pharmacy bag and cleared by the House Leader.
    • Medication for a resident must be stored in the provided lock box, with the key kept on their person.
24. CRF does not provide transportation, and participants are responsible for their own transportation.
    • No personal vehicles are to be driven without providing CRF with a copy of a valid license, registration, and proof of insurance on the vehicle to be driven.
    • Participants are not allowed to lend their vehicle to any other participant.
    • One vehicle per person is allowed on the property or street at CRF. Vehicles must be searched prior to use and can be searched at any time thereafter.
    • CRF reserves the right to deny the privilege of having a vehicle at the house.
    • Vehicles must be in working condition or they will be towed at the owner's expense.
    • Everyone with a vehicle is expected to be of service and help other participants get to meetings. Participants needing rides should ask 24 hours in advance and are expected to be of service in other ways and/or pay for gas.
25. After 90 days in the house, on Phase 2 and in good standing (current on fees, employed, meeting attendance, chores, etc.), a participant may be granted a 48-hour pass once every 30 days, or a 24-hour pass every 14 calendar days.
    • Participants must provide a written request by 10:00 pm the Sunday PRIOR TO the date of the requested pass. Late passes will not be considered.
    • Participants must complete a pass request form. Incomplete forms will not be considered.
26. No smoking or vaping in the house at any time.
    • Smoking and vaping are only permitted in the designated smoking areas.
    • No loitering (or sitting in cars) in front of the house or in the alley.
    • The address of the house is confidential. DO NOT give it out without approval from administration.
27. No TVs, space heaters, humidifiers, personal refrigerators, etc. are permitted in the rooms at ANY time.
    • Do not touch the thermostat at any time.
    • No participant shall change their assigned bed or rearrange furniture without permission from the House Leader. No one is to bring in any furniture or hang anything on walls.
28. CRF may implement other rules or regulations on an individual or the community as it deems necessary, and reserves the right to use our interpretation of these rules.

Participant Agreement

Please read the following, initial by each section, and sign at the bottom.

• I understand that this application needs to be completely accurate and honest. I understand that if the application is not accurate, I may be asked to leave CRF immediately and without refund.
• The above listed rules were explained to me, and I understand them.
• I understand that I am a guest at CRF.
• I agree to follow these rules during my stay at CRF.
• I understand that my continued stay at CRF is contingent upon completion of my 30-day probationary period.
• I understand that I must be able and capable to care for myself, comply with daily house requirements, and find employment without the need for supervision.
• In consideration of the permission granted me to stay temporarily as a guest in CRF, I promise and agree to observe and abide by all the rules, regulations, and requirements stated above, and any further rules that administration may need to include for the smooth running of the facilities.
• I promise and agree to peacefully leave the premises at any time that I drink any alcoholic beverages, use any mind-altering chemicals, violate any of the above-mentioned rules, or whenever requested to do so by administration.
• I understand that I will be required to remain drug and alcohol free while living at CRF.
• I agree to submit to urine and breath testing at any time, and understand CRF follows a policy for such testing.
• I understand refusal to comply with CRF drug/alcohol testing will result in my immediate discharge, and I agree to peacefully leave CRF if any of my tests are positive.
• I understand that only upon termination or outside testing will I be told what I tested positive for.
• I agree to waive and relinquish any and all claims and demands for damages which may or might arise in any way and from any cause, whether from personal treatment or any patent/latent defect in the premises or other direct or implied negligence, regardless of the nature and the occasion thereof.
• I am not under the influence of any mind- or mood-altering substances at this time, and I understand what I am signing.
• I understand that CRF is not responsible for me if I relapse, and transportation from the house is my responsibility. I understand that CRF will only take me to the police station or an agreed-upon residence in city limits upon relapse or termination.
• I agree to waive my right to any and all eviction procedures and will leave at CRF's request.
• I understand and agree to allow CRF to have access to search my possessions, vehicle, and phone at any time while I am a participant, and that if I refuse, I will be terminated from CRF.
• I understand and agree that law enforcement and parole/probation officers are granted access to the house, my possessions, vehicle, phone, and all my CRF information at any time, without cause.
• I understand my stay at CRF is temporary, and I agree to participate in the program provided at CRF.
• I agree to NOT have my mail delivered to CRF property.
• I understand CRF is not a recovery program for those with alcoholism or addiction.
• I understand that all controlled substances or classified medications, and some over-the-counter medications, are not allowed at CRF. Even if prescribed, there are medications I will not be allowed to possess or ingest while living in the home. Examples may include but are not limited to: US Drug Classification Schedules I–V, medical marijuana, stimulants, narcotic pain medications, ketamine, benzodiazepines, kratom, and 7-OH.
• I understand that despite certain benefits or desired effects of synthetic supplements, I am not allowed to possess or ingest them while living at CRF. Examples may include but are not limited to: certain pre-workout supplements, dietary supplements, other herbal compounds, and peptides.
• I agree that I will not possess, ingest, or otherwise use any CBD products, THC derivatives, kratom, kava, kenna, or other herbal extracts.
• I agree to clear with administration all prescribed and over-the-counter medications, as well as vitamins, herbals, and supplements, before filling or bringing them into the home.
• I understand that I cannot ingest poppy seed products, anything that contains alcohol, or non-alcoholic beer/beverages.
• I understand no refund will be given regardless of circumstances or who paid the participation fee.